“ Life is beautiful ..”

Imagine a beautiful day in your life - everything has gone your way . Everything - perfect as you always wished it to happen has happened ; people you always wanted to be with met you & you spent quality time together ; the delicious food you wanted to eat unexpectedly was delivered to you . For this one day ,things are just going in way as you dreamed of and the day has just began … Every one has experienced such day - at least few times in our life . That day you say -‘ You know , Life is beautiful ! ‘

Unfortunately such beautiful days can not be everyday . You can not have so controlled external situations some one is controlling from outside for you . By the way ,we are always on look out for such person who can do it for us & we love him or her just for this reason . What if I tell you - go find it in a space space of the inner you from where you can experience this joy moment to moment without depending on people ,circumstances, life situation & possessions etc . Do you know why we fail miserably making everyday a beautiful day ? Because we constantly are after creating external circumstances hoping that that will brings us joy & happiness as what I described a perfect beautiful day for each of us earlier. As long as we can bring those external things to our table which varies person to person ,we are happy . Not exactly happy because of those external things but what that they brings with them - moments of inner joy & happiness . We become desperate ,crave for then & can go to any extent in our life so as to make it sustain in our lives . Relentlessly such cycle continues .

Even if all our efforts are good enough to make it sustain in our life ,eventually we get tired of our sustained efforts .One day we stop making those draining efforts when it is just not possible for us to carry it further anymore , only to loose that stimulus which brings us happiness & We make ourselves even more miserable . We feel so sorry for ourselves because all those efforts goes in vain . We start blaming the same people , circumstances, situations that was so dear to us for stimulus they provided as they leave you . The fault is yours my friend , not of those external stimulus that gave you happiness. What controls your emotions controls your life . You chose them ,they did not choose you .I am not saying there is good or bad in choosing them . What I am saying just introspect what those choices & efforts are doing to you . You decide for your self is it ok for you to be in that dependant state ? . As long as it is ok , it is worth it & absolutely fine to going with it . But what if it is not ? If it is not , how long you want to do take those efforts ? Are you tired chasing it all the time ? Can you do something about in order to acquire self-sustained joy with peace & bring spontaneity about it ?

As they say - ‘ the only way for is - way in & not way out ‘. Build that solid platform in you so that outside no longer bothers inner you . I’m not saying not to do anything about outside situation . You surely have to , you should . But then as you build that solid platform inside you , you don’t react then you start responding . Those profound responses creat wonders in your life , brings you everything that you always wished for . Only because your inner you is rock solid , everything becomes so easy . Once you reach in that powerful place inside you ,whether external things happens or do not happen as per your wish, your will make your -day & life always beautiful.

I urge you make your life beautiful by finding that space in you ,no one else is going to make life beautiful for you … And if you find something or someone, that is helping you find that unconditionally , you learn to treat them well & respect them as then only then will those sources will stay with you forever..

I pray & hope for all , ‘ May each of us find that inner powerful place to make our lives beautiful .’

Believe me -“Life is indeed beautiful !”

- Krantikumar R Rathod .