Mein Zindagi Ka Saath Nibhata Chala Gaya

We all act that ‘Serious Person’ time & again including myself in our life journey . As one matures ( mind you I m not saying growing old in age ) experiencing turbulent times , you tend to understand futility of acting that ‘ Serious Person ‘ . Instead of ruminating what happened to us as a result of our action or our inaction , we can take one step at a time even as interplay between your situation & emotions overwhelms you fully knowing our time is limited & running . You may slow down your speed but please do not stop your journey to your destiny . Just dissect yourself , your situation & accept things as they are to create your responses .

As we dissect ourselves & our situation , we realise that solutions fall in two categories to the presenting situation for us . One category of answers is in famous sentence “Sometime not getting what you want is wonderful stroke of luck . “ Never underestimate bigger plan universe has stored especially for you or understanding 'not all situation comes to disrupt you but sometimes they are there to clear your path' . if you stop now even after this realisation , you yourself is delaying or preventing to reach your true destination . Other category of solutions to our present painful situation are in as Rumi said “ Those pains you feel are messengers , Listen to them .“ We have to take our learnings from situations created because of our desires , relationships , preferences & keep walking with our subsequent modified actions . Not to overthink, resist & loose your time as time is so precious & healer itself . So spend your time wisely , accept personal responsibility & retain your peace to enhance your positive response. Make sure that your response should create your destiny such that your missing happiness in today’s situation should feel regret why they could be get assimilated in your destiny & get desperate to be part of your future life one day . Create such responses my friend , build & shape your blissful life journey .

In creating such beautiful life journey for yourself , May you loose differentiation between joy & sorrow to reach the state of no regrets to say ‘Har Fikra Ko Dhuyein Mein Udata Chala Gaya “ & finally finally to the state “You Blessing Yourself ....”

Dr Krantikumar R Rathod .